TuRn DreAms AnD AspIratIonS iNto ReAlitY

The Power Of The Mind

2007-07-29T23:50:00.000+08:00

Alright people,this weekend have been the same,at work as always,however not with the same boredom as the previous weeks.Had BBQ at Gen's house yesterday to celebrate her brother's birthday.Had a talk with her Ah Kong,an 80 year old with a healthy body and a big heart.He was telling us how Shell,the oil company had a solid infrasructure of workers and how all of it was rapidly growing despite being good.

Also had a talk with her aunt about education,of course the last thing on earth anyone wants to talk about when having fun.However I had no choice because she was nice enough to talk to me.So we talked about her son,whom is in the gifted program and is very lazy.In my heart I was saying if he is lazy and he is in the gifted program,he should be really smart and aunty you should be proud of him.I didnt say it as I thought it would be rude.

Anyways after the BBQ had some games of poker with Cheryl, Gen and guess who?Her DAD,which ended kicking my butt all the games.I guessed it isnt that he is really good,its just that my luck was rather bad.Had nonscence in hand like 3,4,5,7,NO SIX!!!!The worse thing that it was all of different shapes.Was quite pissed except it didnt show as I controlled it and just went along losing most of the games.After all that,at 12.55,finally we left and Steph Da Jie sent me home.She's rather good in driving taking into accountability that she just passed her license on Wednesday.ROCK ON!!

The reason why my topic is "The Power Of The Mind" is because this weekend I tried to change the way I thought about work,that work is boring or 2 full days at work.Well I achieved the outcome of being positive,which is the 2 days of work went really fast and well,all I know that its Sunday today and I dont feel that tired and exhausted.The mind really can make wonders, especially when you really believe in the power of the mind,how strong it is to keep you going to strive.I have always believed in it,but lately couldnt stay positive with all the problems bugging me.Everyone reading,remember to USE THE POWER OF THE MIND!!

Wonderful Life Starts With Someone Above

2007-07-27T22:58:00.000+08:00

Had a wonderful day today.Actually went to school but not class,as the weather was too nice that I actually slept in.Had lunch with the normal good school friends including AJ and Sid.Then went bowling with baby Lulu and Stacie.Had some wonderful scores like 143 and 137,however only once was 96 but thats alright considering the unbearable pain at both my arms.Had a slip when wanted to show them a demonstration of how I fell at ice skating.Its all hilarious.

Had cravings at Delifrance when watching them eat,especially Stacie eating croissant which is my favourite food there.Anyway went walking around Toa Payoh with Natalie and found out that some shops sells clothes for $3.Like seriously how do they make money?Yeaapps went home after that and I feel upset I am not at Empower U thanks to Mum and Work.

Anyway back to our topic.Wonderful Life starts with someone above.Everything in life has been created by just 1 person and that is god.It doesnt matter whom our god is or what religion we come from,all the basics is the same.In life,its not about ourself,but its all about him.Our daily prayers will open him up to shine on us.We were born by and for his purpose.None of us are born by accident as god always have a purpose in doing things in our lives and by creating us.However,men have always been puzzled finding the purpose of their lives on Earth.The only reason for that is because we typically start at the wrong point,which is ourselves.We have to start with the almighty and then followed by ourselves,like when you have a leader and a follower,the leader's name will always stand out compared to the follower.We have to be vigilant and we must always be thankful to the almighty as him and ONLY him that can reveal to us the purpose in life directly or indirectly.So this is a short poem to thank the almighty.

You are who you are for a reason,
You're part of an intricate plan
You're precious and perfect unique design,
Called God's special woman or man

You look like you look for a reason,
Our God makes no mistake
He knit you together within the womb,
You're just what he wanted to make

The parents you had were the ones he choose,
And no matter how you may feel
They were custom-designed with God's plan in mind,
And they bear the Master's seal

NO,that trauma you faced was not easy,
And God wept that it hurt you so
But it was allowed to shape your heart,
So that into his likeness you'd grow

You are who you are for a reason,
You've been formed by the Master's rod.
You are who you are,BELOVED,
BECAUSE THERE IS OUR ALMIGHTY GOD!!

God loves you people.Have a good day ahead =)

First Post In A Long Long Time

2007-07-26T15:45:00.000+08:00

Hey everyone,anyway I would like to apologise for not posting for very long here.I had a new personal blog.Now I am using this blog back. So YEA!!loads of people want to see my posts and have been bugging me.Alright!!So I will do a summary of the past 2 months..

School just started about 2 months ago.I met loads of new and fun friends.They never failed to make me smile even though when I am down.Going to school has never been more fun then now.Made alot of really good friends in school,for example my clique,which consists of Belinda,Gena,Genevieve,Jael,Jayasri,Mei Fen and of course Stanley.Not forgetting Stacie and Natalie,who are really close to me too.All of us are actually close friends and I am sure we will feel so separated next year when we all are separated into our our choices of course.

Have been out loads of times with my classmates doing numerous activities for example playing pool,ice skating,bowling, water skiing and out to Sentosa, a place where I havent been to in like 2 years. I am really happy that my classmates are adventurous and fun-loving!!We can do the funniest things and talk about every little thing, and with some lameness, which we all LOVE!!But nevertheless its good that all of us can take jokes,and I love you all.

Going back to my life,the past 2 months has also been very hectic for me trying to plan my schedule properly to fit in my friends,work and school and I will say its really not easy.I know I have to spend less time with some friends who are not really beneficial in my life and who goes slacking around,cause I know I really cant afford it.Its really not cause you guys are bad or anything,its just that I have to do well in school.I really apologise to those whom I had not been going out with.

Had Empower U last week and it was the best batch ever ever in the whole 4 years that I have been doing this course. This is the first program that ALL the assists dont really have to put in ALOT of effort to get the participants going,however not every program is like a walkover.We have to really put in loads of effort every program to achieve the best outcome alright ASSISTS who are READING MY BLOG!!!And I love Shannon my sister alot and I swear I will miss you to bits when you are overseas =( I am a phone ring away rights sis!!LoveYa!!

Alright that is a relatively LONG posts and I will not let some of you down,I will keep on posting rights!!Love all my readers.Have a good day!!

The Importance Of F-A-M-I-L-Y

2006-06-20T22:19:00.000+08:00

Here is a very very important topic in most people's life.Family is whom an individual always spend time with.Family can stand for "Father and Mother I Love You" or "Friends and Mates I Love You".This is because family can be among parents or friends.So why is the word family so important?

It is important because they are the ones who cheer you up when you are down.They are part of your heart and soul,in everything you do,when they are not by your side or when they are gone,you will realize the importance of them.Whether your parents of friends,they are part of your willpower to keep you going on,even know a small percentage,the small % might affect you tremendously.Why can I say this?This is because I lost a very important friend not long ago.She was very very close to me and we both shared alot with one another.She was a great sister thus a great person to keep me going.However,her life ended when she was only 21 due to 1 stupid mistake,which is giving herself away.

When I think about it,I will be upset and all.However,there was once that I really sat down to think about it.It was her choice to do it,so the consequences had to be accepted.Although she was a sister to me,I have to forgive and I had to let the emotions go.It did affect me for a week or so,but I had to move on.

Right now,I have my family and my other 'families' who are still here,with and supporting me.And everyone in life has and will have a family,no one in life will be without a family.This is because the family will always be in your heart.Wherever you go,the family always goes with you.They might not be there physically,but the thoughts and the feelings will always push you to go excel in life.I hope that all the people that are part of my family or even not,always make the right choice and never do anything that might endanger your life.If you are down,dont do anything stupid,cause 1 stupid move,may cause you a lifetime.Some stupid choices may not only cause you,but the people who love you.

As for myself,I have made some wrong choices in my life.Until recently,when I sat back and reflect,and I finally realise all the mistakes.Now is the time for me to amend all the mistakes in my life.As long as the mistakes have not created a scar,I can heal it faster.If it has,the wound will take a longer time to heal.Now I would like to thank everyone for all their support,especially my parents for raising me up for the 17 years and all my other families and friends who has never doubted me and my potentials.Thank you and that will be the end of my topic today.Love you everyone

My life the past 5 months

2006-05-23T22:35:00.000+08:00

The past 5 months has been the best 5 months in my whole wide life.I went to Australia and Brunei without my parents.In January,I went to Australia for a wonderful 5 day camp and in march I went to Brunei for Cv2.This experience has been the best because I have really wanted to travel on my own.
So everyone must be wondering why am I writing about this.The answer is simple.Some people live their lives without appreciating the fact that they are so lucky.I had an awareness that I have not appreciate my life enough yet.Thats why I am sharing with you all about this wonderful 5 months and I am learning to appreciate myself and love myself at the same time.
Yesterday at the airport,when sending my two mentors off,memories of flying to australia and brunei came back.And at that moment I realized,in the past 5 months,I have spent over 6000 dollars just to go to courses to improve and understand myself.The first question that came to my mind,'Why did I spend so much?'The second was,'Why did I go for it'The answers came to me when I was staring blankly into space.The answer was something like this.'Never ever question yourself on what you do good for yourself.You were meant to be at the programs and it was all worth it'.
When i thought it thru,the answers were right.If you question yourself on why you do certain things,you will always regret and forget that you are doing a good deed for yourself,and if you were not meant to be there,u could have died in the plane,or something horrible could have happened to you.So it all made sense why was I at the courses.
I have just realised also that the courses has made me change alot,in my behavior and my thinking about my life.I realized I am much happier now and I can deal with situations alot better now.I just see my life as a flower,blooming and blooming and I look at all the positive things in life.Although some negative thoughts still flow thru,but I am happy that most of it is positive.I am just so pumped up about life and I love my life.N I will help anyone if they doubt that thier life is good.

This are for the EU assists

Shih Han dear-The weekend has just been so fabulous and I was happy that you were there.Dont be too stressed with schoolwork and just know that in my heart you are always better then her.You are always loved and I love you too.Take care.Hugs

Shannon Jie-Thanks for giving me advise on what to do and I appreciate you by my side.Thanks for trusting me and you are always trusted too:D.Love ya.

Steve Bro-It was just another amazing weekend and I know what you are going thru.Just know that I trust that you can do it.Cause you will.:D

Stephy Mei-I am proud to see ya so matured and understanding peoples feeling.We will get over adri missing in action and we will make all the EUs a better one with me,u and steve in charge.I love u.hugs

Linnette-You have improved tremendously from the first time at EU and you have such a great personality I have never seen in you b4.Hugs.

Wei Kai-Finally u know whats love and like huh.And i am glad you have made the choice of not going for her cause u finally understand.You will find a better girl,trust me you will.With ur ultra funny personality.HAHA.u rock bro

This is to valerie,i know you are not assist,but i amm so proud of you.Everyone in life has to go,and i could just feel the pain that u were feeling,cause i have losts one too.And when i told u on saturday to let go,and you did,i was so happy and you are a really awesome girl.I have no doubts about saying that i love you.hugs.

Thank you everyone for reading..I love you all

Difference between LOVE and LIKE

2006-05-04T20:59:00.000+08:00

In life,all of us will have many relationships.Nowadays even kids as young as primary school already have started having relationships.This is due to the growth of the thinking of people in Singapore and around the world.However,relationships can be divided into two categories.The "LIKE" and the "LOVE".Both of this word to some people may seem the same thus to some different.So whats the real difference between this two?Well,for example if a boy keeps eyeing a gal he never sees before,and then he makes a move at asking her for her number,can we tell if thats like or love?Actually,nobody else can tell if it is like or love other then yourself.If a person is infactuated with the other party,he cant lie that it is love,cause infactuation is most of the time a 'WANT'.A want is similar to a like cause he/she doesnt know whats inside an individual but he/she is judging from the outside for example face or body in that sense.However,if an individual does not fall in move at first sight,but takes the time to get to know the other party better and then slowly developing the relationship into a strong and everlasting one,thats what i call true love.Currently,are you and the person who you are with in 'LOVE'.Cause its easy to say I am in love without even knowing what does love mean.To be straight,LOVE cant be defined in words,cause if you really love a person,you would be showing it to the person,and not by words.This is because actions speak louder then words.Yes,a word can win somebodys heart,but an action is a stronger way of expressing ur emotions.Thats my topic for today and I love u guys:D

Choices and Decisions

2006-05-01T18:48:00.000+08:00

Choices is essential in ones life.One has to make many choices when they grow up,whether in business terms or in personal terms.However,one has 2 options.He can make the right choice,or he could make a wrong choice.Obviously,if we are talking in business terms,a wrong decision or choice could cost a huge sum of money.If its a personal decision,it could spoil relationships and it could be painful.So how do we differenciate a right choice from a wrong.Do we listen to what others say?Do we follow our gut feeling?The answer is NO.We should not listen to what others say and make a decision,thus,we take their advise into consideration.What an individual should do is he should lists down the advantages and disadvantages.One should also consult different people who are specialized in different areas.For example if you are selling medication,do not go to a person who is selling clothes.Try and find another individual who is selling medication and perhaps ask for advise.Thats where you have to only take the advise into consideration.This is so bcause would a person in the same market want to let another succeed??They would give some advise,however the decision is for urself to make.Everything in life has its consequences.If an individual makes a wrong choice,he has to deal with his own consequence.Whether it is bad or good,whether it generates income or not,whether you are happy anot or etc.1 of the steps to achieve success is to make a right choice and decision.Do not rush into making any choice or decision and always have and imagine different scenarios.Imagine what you want it to be like and draft out all the consequences that can happen.Many people in life neva succeed or go bankrupt because of not making the right choices.So everyone of my fellow friends,never make the same mistakes and if you did,learn from them.

Hafiz
loves<333